No Veggies Please

Last night I told Hudson he had to have two bites of veggies, zucchini and squash. He's had them before and eaten them, but he wouldn't last night. And I am sick of being a short order chef.
He said he didn't want any. So I tried everything, "The whole family is going out for a treat, so if you want to come you have to eat them." That didn't work.
He had to take the treat to preschool today and so I said, "If you eat your veggies you can pick the treat out at the store." That didn't work either. I even called the Easter Bunny, aka, my mom and told him that Hudson wasn't eating his veggies. I explained that the East Bunny loves veggies and he only comes to little boys houses who eat veggies. He looked at me as if to say, "So what, I know he'll still come." I was done, I didn't know what to do. If I force him to eat it, he will throw it up and everything he's eaten. The kid is so skinny, he doesn't eat anything, but is getting better. I heard its a boy thing, so hopefully Ruby will be different. If he gets it in his mind that he doesn't want to eat then he won't. I had put myself in a place, because I knew that I would eventually have to give in and let him off the table, but I am just sick of him eating crap.
The kid doesn't like fruit, even as a baby. I have to sneak fruit into smoothies, even then, he can tell sometimes. He lives off of yogurt drinks, ovaltene, string cheese, basically dairy, and he loves meat. Whenever we go out to eat, he orders the ribs off the kids menu. The only veggies he likes are peas, corn on the cob(he actually loves it), and salad. My sister gave me that cookbook where you hide veggies in their food, I need to start using it, but I just know he will know. I guess its worth a try.
I've stopped asking him what he wants for lunch and just started giving him something, it has worked pretty good. What to do. Every so often when I make soup or a casserole, he'll eat the veggies that are in there, and go, hey, I do like veggies, but if I give him the leftovers the next day, nope, not a chance. This little boy is so stubborn and had a mind of his own that you can't change.


This is him 20 minutes later, still no veggies eaten. He started to cry, saying that he didn't want any, he kept saying he was full. Do his see his plate and bowl? He had hardly eaten anything. We had chicken Parmesan w/ noodles and veggies. I gave him his two favorite plates and he still wouldn't eat. And still no veggies eaten. I told him I was taking pictures because one day he wouldn't believe me that he didn't like veggies. I am such a mean mom.
So finally I asked him what vegetable he would eat and he said, salad. So, he won, I gave him a bowl of salad, of course with Ranch, oh so nutritious, and he got off the table. Kids!